Psychology Today: Fuggedaboutit—Alpha Male Linguistics
From Psychology Today:
A man's verbal responses to "thank you" may also be a way of posturing their dominance.
Hey,
anytime. No biggie. Don't worry about it. Psycholinguistic research
reveals that we choose our gratitude acknowledgements pragmatically,
proving that such language isn't phatic (devoid of content) after all.
University of Western Ontario psychologist Albert Katz suggests men, in
particular, may use "anytime" to convey dominance by signaling they
have sufficient means to do the favor again in the future.
In
a study, people responded to written scenarios that described them
doing someone a favor. Manipulating the "cost" of favors in terms of
time, effort, or money, Katz and two colleagues asked the volunteers to
choose responses to thanks and justify their choices. Not surprisingly,
open-ended phrases like "anytime" and "whatever you need" were used
less when favors were costly.
But there was
also this surprising finding: When men used "anytime"—and
explained their choice as an invitation to be asked to perform the
favor again—it was far more often for high-cost favors and when
the favor-asker was male. Katz speculates that the men were displaying
"a linguistic form of alpha-male behavior," in other words saying, "
'Hey, I'm higher than you in the dominance hierarchy—I have the
resources.' " —Conrad McCallum
"Anytime" Zones
Don't take these foreign language approximations of "you're welcome" too literally.
Spanish has the kindly un placer (a pleasure), the handy de nada (it was nothing), and the polite siempre a la orden (always at your service), while German gives us bitte (please), keine Ursache (no problem), nichts zu danken (nothing to thank) and gern geschehen (it happened gladly). And in French, there's ça me fait plaisir (that pleases me).
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